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Please email me to sign up for the next available course: boehuntress@gmail.com
Breaking Our Patterns of Attachment
Experiential Group
FREE INTRODUCTION RECORDING AVAILABLE
Do you wonder why you struggle in relationships?
Do you desire to change your attachment style?
Are you looking to transform painful relationship dynamics?
Do you wish to break the patterns in which you feel stuck?
This is for you if you are:
Curious about your relationship dynamics and want to delve deeper into their root causes
Want the support and witness of other people to work through your challenges
Ready to bring change to areas of stuckness in your life
Interested in taking relationship issues out of the private arena and into a more collective or community arena
What you will get:
Insight into your deepest patterns and dynamics
Exploration of the origin of your woundings
Experience of your projections and seeing beneath them
Witness and presence from others
Many of us are wounded in the area of relationships, starting with our earliest attachment wounds, re-enacted by our romantic and sexual experiences, and compounded by our disconnected society. For many of us the goal is to create a secure attachment style, but how do we do this? They say that wounds that are created in relationship are most effectively healed in and through relationship.
In one to one therapy we may be able to internalise the secure attachment with our therapist, but this is just one specific kind of dynamic. Dr Stan Tatkin's work (couple's therapist), promotes a 'Secure Functioning Relationship' with a partner where you create a 'couple bubble.' However, many of us are not equipped to make such a commitment, and/or we may seek wider forms of inter-dependency.
The purpose of an experiential group is to discover who we are in relationships by experiencing ourselves amongst many 'others'. The space will be a held container where we can dare to be honest about what is really happening for us in relation to the others in the group.
We may experience a strong charge with one person, or with many; we may see ourselves reflected in others; we may feel rejection, envy or any number of strong emotions, which we can explore in a container with people who are all participating with presence and curiosity.
The group itself creates a form of secure attachment, in that it is a committed and regular space with clearly defined boundaries. We get to explore many different kinds of dynamics, and to use the space to grow, to experiment and to discover more freedom relationally.
The group will meet weekly for 1.5hrs (with holiday breaks).
The minimum commitment is ten weeks, after which the group will temporarily open for people to leave or join.
This gives people the option to be on this journey for an extended period of time. If you continue beyond ten sessions, there will be some changes in membership, creating fresh waves to further challenge and expand.
DATES:
Online: Mondays 5pm - 6.30pm
18th March 2024
25th March 2024
[Easter break]15th April 2024
22nd April 2024
29th April 2024
[Break for Bank Holiday]13th May 2024
20th May 2024
27th May 2024
3rd June 2024
10th June 2024
This will be a closed group (the same people for ten sessions).
Participants are asked to attend 80% of sessions. If you know you will have to miss more than two sessions, please wait until the next round to join.
COSTS:
Sponsored: £200 for ten session series (£13 per hour of class)
Unemployed / low income of less than 10K per year
Standard: £250 for ten session series (£16 per hour of class)
Annual income of over 10K - 30K per year
Abundant: £300 for ten session series (£20 per hour of class)
Annual income of 30K+ per year
If costs are prohibitive, please get in touch: boehuntress@gmail
Ideally you won’t have personal relationships with anyone else in the group. If you do know someone in the group we can put some boundaries in place to make this as safe as possible but please do let Boe know: boehuntress@gmail.com
About Boe Huntress:
This is a Group Analytic practice. Boe will bring some light guidance to the group and hold the container. Boe has a diploma in Group Analysis and runs Experiential Groups at Roehampton University and City University London for Psychologists in Training.
Boe has been a facilitator for over ten years, holding Womxn's Groups, Screen Addiction courses, as well as offering 1-1 Mentoring. Boe was the Artist in Residence at Union Chapel for five years making multi-disciplinary immersive events, and is also a singer/songwriter.
“I’m drawn to group analysis as a modality because it’s a practice that makes space for the idea that ‘we do not see things as they are, we see them as we are’ (Anais Nin). This gives us a real handle on how to disentangle things that may seem irreparably tangled.” Boe Huntress
Feedback from previous groups:
"Boe is a one in a million facilitator" Sophie
"I’ve had the privilege of being in Boe’s women's group for a few years now and it's always been an incredible experience. I’ve always felt in safe hands, in complete trust and able to grow each time. Women’s group has changed my life. I can’t imagine where I would be now without such an experience" Anna
“Attending Boe's group has enabled me to find my spiritual core. It has changed my relationship with myself and with the world, and enabled me to live from a more authentic and loving place." Millie
"To say that Women's group has been a life-changing experience would actually be an understatement. It has given me the most incredible support network, lifeline in hard times, and a sacred connection to others." Siobahn
"I feel blessed beyond words to have found this group. It can be SO hard to find the space to explore and meet one's needs in modern every day life, and what has been grown here is exceptional and unique. I have deep gratitude to Boe for providing this much needed and very rare space.” Bel
"I think this has been the best thing I've ever done.” Phoebe